A good and a bad experience

 So I had another great time in Doncaster just over a month ago. One repeat meet (lovely cock, knows how to use it and when it comes to sucking him clean always a nice sweet bit of load left).

 But then I went to Nottingham and... it wasn't so good.

 As usual, I arrived and got ready. Also as usual, the time wasters crawled out of the dark corners and from under their rocks. It can honestly be draining trying to reply sometimes and you do get a feeling for the ones who are fantasists and/or just out for a quick wank.

Anyway I was a couple of loads in. I believe, from how he was speaking and acting, the guy inside me was on the neurodiverse spectrum - quite a long way on it. But, ultimately, as rude and abrupt as he was he wasn't a terrible fuck. Mind you he wasn't a good one, either - very... well, nothing other than his personality to remember, let's put it that way.

I was chatting to a guy on Grindr. No pics. Not much info other than bb and top were listed. No photos.

He arrived and my heart sank. As soon as he spoke, it was clear he was Asian and before I'd had a chance to turn him away, and with no warning - and before he'd even undressed - he tried (literally) to ram all four fingers and his thumb into me. His long nails tore the fuck out of me.

So in pain, bleeding (badly  as it turned out) I kicked him out. His parting comments being "you wanted it rough"... no. Nothing about what we had discussed ever suggested this. And rough is not that, anyway.

His parting shot - I am going to tell the hotel you're a rent boy. My parting shot - send them up and I will get them to call the police.

Anyway I reported the incident to Grindr. And here it's a mixed bag. I received a warning for using language that was considered "offensive or unfriendly" and any further incidents would result in my being banned... and then shortly later an email confirming that they had tracked down the relevant account and permanently banned him

So... for the fuck knuckle that was trying to accuse me of being racist when I said I don't meet Asian men - *this* is why. I wish I could say that it's an isolated one-off, bad egg, but it isn't.

 Every single - and I mean literally every single - experience I have had with Asian men they have pushed boundaries that were never even discussed to begin with. Every single one has been them trying to physically dominate through abuse. 

 And it is abuse. 

When you don't agree things up front. When there is no conversation around limits and what is - and what is *not* acceptable. When you just launch into trying to cram hands into holes (and again this is at least the third time I've had this - they seem to collectively have a weird fetish for stretching arses) - it. is. abuse.

Anyone posting anything in response to suggest I am being unreasonable or racist - save yourself the effort. I will delete all such posts and ban your IP and email addresses with extreme prejudice. I am not going to argue because you *think* something vs my actual lived experiences of it and I am absolutely not in the mood for any more made up "durp you're a racist" bullshit and cunt-wittery.

 And yes. I am angry even more than a week later. 

 

 

 

Sheffield again

 Well, I was in the area for work again so I booked the usual hotel with easy, no-reception-to-pass, access.

 As usual I'd had a lot of interest but also, as usual and sadly predictably, many were just after a wank-chat. 

Weds evening came and I had a bit of interest still. I got ready and, as usual, I showered, douched and lubed then got on the bed on all 4's with my blindfold hood on and the door unlocked. 

Just before I did pop my hood on, a guy I'd been chatting to on Fabguys  messaged to say he was 2 mins away.

I heard the door open a few moments later and the sound of clothes being removed. He felt my hole and knelt down to give me a fantastic rimming. After a while, he stood up and I felt the tip of a beautiful large cock rubbing up and down my hole before he pushed the head in.

He fucked me like pro. Hard, deep thrusts. His cock was thick and long and it felt amazing.

After a while I muttered that I wanted his spunk in me and not long afterwards, he was blowing a massive load into me.

He dressed and left and after some time I head the door open again. This guy didn't even bother getting undressed - I heard him unzip, I heard a squirt of the lube bottle and he pushed right on into me. Long, hard and thin - as you know my idea of a perfect cock. He went like a duracell bunny. He said he was going to cum and could he cum inside me...cute. Fuck yes, blow it deep.

After he came, he slapped my arse once, zipped up and left.

Nothing much happened for a while and then the door opened again. I didn't even hear him unzip or undress - a cock was just rubbed over my lips. I sucked him until he was hard. A pretty average cock but it tasted lovely with lots of salty precum.

He got behind me and slid straight in. He fucked a lot slower - deep, slow, even strokes. He fucked for a good while all with that same slowness. But heach thrust pushed into the bed. It was a gorgeous fuck.

Then all of a sudden he he sped up, grunted and said he'd cum in me.

After he left I thought I'd visit the Boiler Room. Agh.. I had no idea it'd been closed down by the police! So a wasted journey, unfortunately.

(Side note - it appears it was closed due to alleged drug use. Now it's fair to say that I wasn't a super-frequent visitor here, but in my own, personal, experience, I saw zero drug use other than poppers). 

After getting back to the hotel I had a message from a couple. They arrived shortly after I got in.

One of them had a massive cock - I literally struggled to get it in my mouth and I was worried  he might be *too* girthy.

Weirdly he had a very odd reaction when I tried to lick his balls - he jumped back and pushed my head away quite forcefully. 

He got behind me and forced his monster in. It took my breath away somewhat, I won't lie. His partner was now in my mouth. Average, but hard.

Then the guy just pulled out of my arse and that was the end of the fuck. The guy in my mouth pushed me only my back and then wanked his spunk into my mouth. He came a massive load of thick, sweet spunk and I swallowed every drop - even wiping the few bits that went to the side of my mask.

They went and then nothing for a long time and I was about to give up when the door opened. I think he must've had his cock in his hand because he literally walked right up to me and slid in. He said something about loving a well used sloppy hole and then blew a load. Just like that. Maybe 15 thrusts and 5 seconds! Oh well I got his load.

After that I took down the ads and chilled for a while.

All in all a good session. Maybe I am not done with Sheffield totally, after all :-) 

 

Old(er) men and 'twinks'

This bothers me far more than it probably should but I find it incredibly disturbing how many older men are interested in very young men (18 - early 20's).

It just feels very very ucomfortably wrong to me. I am not one to casually kink shame but it's like in the world of straight porn and the "barely legal" titles. If you reframed that as "almost illegal" then I hazard it wouldn't be quite as popular as it is.

I just don't get it, but I'd love to hear other points of view on the matter so maybe I can gain a better understanding.

Feeling disappointed again

 I got a message last week from a top guy down in Maidstone. Initially this seemed like a dream come true - he was into everything that turns me on, appreciates and encourages slut behaviour, plenty of verifications, etc etc

We had a few days of some very hot back and forth and then...nothing.

My message went unread for days.

Messaged again to ask if everything was ok and got a response to say life got in the way. Ok, I get that, I really do, but when you can see that someone is signing in but leaving messages unread, it tells me that it's not due to being busy but on purpose.

He also said he wanted to arrange a time to meet at a sauna which works for me but when I asked when - silence or will have to arrange.

Offered to go down to Maidstone. Not much in the way of replies there, either.

We'll see, but my gut tells me it won't happen, which is a shame.

If it does, I will, of course, post about it here.

A new twist on the timewaster

 I am sadly used to timewasters. It's an occupational hazard but this one took me slightly by surprise because it rapidly descended from simple time wasting bullshit to gaslighting.

Over on Fabguys, there's a profile - https://www.fabguys.com/profile/hotdaddy60uk 

He's the one who lied about coming last time, saying he was parked up 10 mins walk then an hour later in the hotel paying for parking. 

I decided, against my usual rules, to give him a second chance. Something I very rarely do.

Now it's worth putting some of the conversation in from the last week.

I said this, a week ago:

Notice I very clearly state I've booked the room. We had also had chat about the local sauna. His reply:

Some chat over the last week or so and yesterday I sent this:

And this was his reply:

When I reminded him this morning, I got this:

Now had it stopped there, he's just another time wasting prick.

But no. This one decided to double down and gaslight:

I hate this kind of behaviour. It is, basically, a form of abuse and I am certain that anyone who is willing to do this to a complete stranger on a hookup site is more than willing to do it in their other, day-to-day relationships.

I wouldn't usually go to the extent of posting conversations but people need to be aware and keep an eye out for this kind of thing.

(Oh and anyone wanting to see in private, the full, unedited thread, I am happy to show it, just to show I am not cherry picking).

Stay safe x

Doncaster

 It started...if not quite "well", then at least like most other times.

My Dom Top (DT) said he was free. People on the sites and apps were showing interest.

Then... just like before, DT started to either flatly ignore my messages on Grindr (leaving them on read, with no reply) or responding with a flame and when the evening rolled around, he gave some vague message about he might get there later etc.

Well that was it, for me. End of the line. When you consider that it's always me making the arrangements, always me to message first, always me putting in the effort and he... well did none of that - couldn't even be bothered to update his profiles or look for other guys etc, I decided there and then that I'd end that "relationship" (using the phrase in the loosest possible terms).

The response said it all "Sorry you feel like that but I won't message you in future" - which, as I pointed out, is a laugh in and all of itself, given he has quite literally *never* messaged me first!

Nothing lost in my eyes. 

Then I broke one of my cardinal rules and rushed to prep for a guy (who actually didn't even show). I hate doing this as, like in this case, it can lead to not being douched quite enough, as we found out horribly when the first guy did show up.

<sigh>

Oh well he was cool about it and a quick clean up later he pounded a load into me.

After that, I just adopted the position. I'd put the room number etc on the sites/apps and ensured the door was on the latch, so it was just a case of waiting in my blindfold hood.

Another guy soon arrived and got stuck straight in. I could hear him undress and squirt a bit of lube onto his cock. I also heard him take a big hit of poppers before he was behind me, cock at my hole pushing it in.

He had quite a large cock - thicker and longer than average. He slid in fairly slowly and gently and then proceeded to absolutely power fuck me. It was actually a bit breathtaking at first because I wasn't quite expecting it - he went from one long, slow, deep slide into me to BANG!

It was fantastic. He pounded me like that for what felt like an age, telling me my arse felt so good and that he hadn't cum in over a week and he loves fucking cum sluts raw.

As he worked himself up with the dirty chat (which I love and reciprocate) he somehow managed to go even faster and harder.

Than..."FUCK! I'm cumming in you!"

Oh yes...yes... fantastic.

He quite shyly asked if he could use the bathroom as he was dressing. Course he can. 

As soon as he had done, he slapped my arse as he walked past me and out of the door.

It felt like quite a while until the next guy turned up.

Again, I heard him come in and strip off. He came around in front of me and pushed his cock to my mouth. Of course, I obliged, sucking him hard.

This was a much more average cock.

He soon got behind me and started to fuck but he very quickly went soft, unfortunately.

So we ended up in a scenario where I'd suck him hard, he'd fuck me for a few brief moments then go soft.

While this was happening, yet another guy arrived - I just happened to be mid-suck when he did.

He took position inside me arse - again, a bang average cock - but just as he hit a rhythm, he went soft.

The first guy was furiously wanking and as he came, he pulled my mouth down onto his cock. OK, a mouthful is fine but not really what I wanted.

As he got up to leave, the second guy knelt at my face, rubbing his cock over my lips.

He kept pausing though, then putting his cock to my mouth.

Eventually, he came over my lips. As he was dressing he said "your body language looks like you're dissappointed..." erm, yeah. Two cocks should've fucked their spunk up my arse.

<sigh>

After I don't know how long, the door opened and another guy walked in. He didn't strip or even take his pants down - I heard a zip, the pump of lube and he was straight in.

Perfect...long and thin and hard.

No problems this time - he got into a lovely rhythm of deep, slow, thrusts and didn't say a word. Didn't even grunt or groan, just breathing faster.

Eventually he speeded up, breathing really fast until he thrust deep into me and had a little shudder.

Still without a word, he pulled out of me, and I heard him zip up and leave.

After that there seemed to be no other biters. I was talking to one guy who, having parked in a local Asda car park, messaged to say "it's about a 10 min walk"

Almost an hour later, I had settled in for the night when I got another saying "just in reception paying for parking"... this after I'd sent a message saying I was done now, and believed him to be a time waster.

He got a bit snotty with his replies then otherwise I'd have obviously spread for him.

He did later apologise so we'll see what happens next time as I'll be closer to where he lives.

All in all a mixed bag but mostly enjoyable.

Doncaster last week

Apologies - there's a couple of small rants in this one.

I'd tried to book the usual hotel in Doncaster for the week before but got a cancellation message about a day before and since there are no other places suitable for slutting around, I had to put the visit off for a week.

And it turned out that the hotel in question has changed owners - odd they'd just cancel rather than inform, but ok.

I posted on Fabguys my plans - in the hotel room with the door on the latch. A very easy access motel style with no reception to pass through. I would be in my blindfold hood and my dom top would be there, as might others.

Arrive, fuck me, use me how you want, cum inside me and then either leave or hang around and try to get others.

As a bit of a side note/little rant, what is it with versatile guys who either never fuck (newsflash - you're bottom!) or think it is ok to want to push in and take cocks from tops at events others put in all the effort to arrange?

Three or four times I had a different guy say "Oh I can't wait to share the cocks and loads" or words to that effect... no... not happening. To the point I even changed my profile to say if you turn up and do this you will be told to leave. End of story.

It's like the poppers-users who freeload all the time. It annoys me somewhat. My strategy for that now is the new, freshly opened ones don't leave my side. The older ones (still fresh but usually not *quite* as potent) are the ones you can leech from.

Anyway, I arrived at the hotel nice and early and got fully cleaned out. I had about an hour and a half to wait so I had a few cheeky Southern Comfort and lemonades.

Before my regular top arrived, I taped the lock so the outer door would open at a push. I then got onto Gaydar and Grindr and posted my room number, the door on the latch and my being in my blindfold hood so just rock up and blow a load into me. 

My regular guy arrived and I could hear him stripping off. It turns me on to know this guy has blown his spunk into or onto me several times now over the last year and a bit and I still have no idea what he looks like.

He has a fetish for a puffa jacket and he'd brought one. Off came my t-shirt and on went a very ill fitting jacket. It was like a strait jacket, but hey ho - it turned him on.

We had a great fun session. He choked me (hard) with and without his cock down my throat. Forcibly snogged me. Face fucked me and of course arse fucked me.

In between, he sat plucking my pubes out - which was a tough call for him as they're still very trimmed right now.

Oh and the spankings. I love feeling his hand and belt on my arse. I begged him - and he duly obliged - to target my hole. It turns me on so much when I get spanked or belted right there. It is an electric feeling.

Over the next few hours, 3 more guys appeared. The first one made me lose the jacket. To be honest, they all blurred a little into one another. I'd had a bit too much of the Southern Comfort but I remember being absolutely pounded. The 3rd guy's cock was squelching the cum and arse juices like crazy. That was a turn on right there.

After the third guy had cum and gone, my top had to leave quite suddenly.

As I lay on the bed, a 5th guy arrived. Nothing was said. He undressed and slid straight into me. He murmured a few nice things, called me a slut a few times and rode me quite hard. His cock was on the larger side but the poundings, plus the sperm made it easy enough to slip into.

After he came, no one else showed any interest, so I called it a night. It was late by then anyway.

Other than one of them who'd been talking to my top, Neither of us have no idea who any of them were.

They either saw on Grindr of Fabguys and just showed up, fucked me and left. And that, to me, is sheer heaven and a huge turn on.

I am hoping to have a last session before Christmas, but work is hectic at this time of year so it might now happen, but fuck yes... much more of the same, please.