A scam warning

 A little but of a different post - I thought I'd share a bit of information about scams that do the rounds and target us.

The first one is relatively uncommon but I've had someone try to pull it three times on me.

On the apps, like Grindr, someone messages you (or you them).

They are usually very responsive and give you the impression that they're well up for meeting. Often, they talk about how they host gangbangs and parties and how they're looking for another (bottom/vers/top) guy to join and how they like the look of you and your profile.

The chat will continue for a few days before they finally move to the scam. They will tell you something like they run their parties through a website and/or they use a website to confirm that you are over the age of 18 and/or who you say you are.

They ask you to sign up to said site then provide them your login details so they can "confirm" everything.

The first red flag: almost always they are professional-grade photos that they share.

Second: They often answer at odd times (3am in the morning, for example) despite their "location" being only a few miles away from you (of course, they aren't - they spoof it).

Third: Their English may be off. The better ones are not terrible but it's often noticeable.

Fourth (and this is the big one): Ask yourself why would anyone need to know your login to a site? Have you ever even heard of this site? How long has it been around? Chances are even if they don't ask for your login, it's just a site someone set up to harvest your credit card details in plain text.

Do NOT be fooled by it looking like a professionally designed website. These people are clever.

Another common one is to get an email saying that someone has recorded you wanking off to porn and if you don't send them some money (usually in cryptocurrency) they will send it on to your contacts.

What makes this one more believable is that they usually include a password. Here's the thing - they got your email and password from a data breach. They don't have ANY access. And it may not even be your email or computer password (hopefully, you use different passwords and it won't be, but...).

It's a psychological trick to try and make you panic because you think that they have your passwords and accesses.

And the final one today is one I am less aware of with gay men but not uncommon with straight/bisexuals.

You are contacted by a woman. Eventually she will ask you to video chat and that chat will become very sexual and you'll be asked to wank off for them.

You aren't actually talking to a human in the vast number of cases. It's a very cleverly timed, pre-recorded video stream with pauses in all the right places for you to respond and fill in the gaps. Honestly until you see it in action you wouldn't believe just how well timed this all is.

But it's another one that's easy to spot and subvert with a bit of thought. Just wait. Pause. Slow down responses or throw in something that isn't relevant to the conversation. A real human will react. A recording will move on to their next piece seamlessly...

Of course, that doesn't preclude it being a person who *is* a honeytrap but that costs money and time and they cannot target mutiple people simultaneously that way, so it's rare.

That's it for now. Stay safe online.

Back in Doncaster

Just a warning that this one contains a bit of kink including hitting, choking and watersports. If it's not your thing, move on. If it is, read on...

I'd been speaking with the top guy since the last meet talking about a repeat performance and discussing how much we'd both enjoyed it and how we wanted to do more in the next session, including going to both a sauna and a cruise.

 Now in a rare turn of events I have some time free next weekend but that didn't gel as he doesn't but we were both free this Wednesday just gone and so I booked a room at the hotel and we made the arrangement.

A few years ago, I would get inundated with messages on both the websites and apps but lately I get a lot of attention but not so many guys reaching out to make contact, or when they do there's a trend of not being available, or the worse ones - the ones on their way but then suddenly block you.

Three times I had that on Grindr and to this day I have no idea what they get from it - I don't do "cyber" so it's not like they get their rocks off. Hey ho, I digress.

I got to the hotel and got cleaned out. I had a "oh no" moment where the douche felt very painful and uncomfortable and raised the question of whether the night was over before it began, but I think I just angled the hose wrong. It was transient and didn't come back.

Anyway there was a slight adjustment to our plans as he had to work later than expected, so in true slag fashion, I trawled online and this is where the three said they were en-route then never showed and blocked.

Eventually a guy did show. I had been very clear about what the meets were - quick (not into all night sessions at the best of times), anonymous (I was in my blindfold hood), bareback and cum inside.

One of the first things he did was pull the hood off. He then bounced around like a fucking child on too much sugar, sliding into me, out of me, bending me round to kiss, licking my feet, pushing his cock into my mouth for a thrust or two and back again before (albeit after not too long) saying he was going to spray cum on me...on... "no, IN me..." nope. He refused and shot it over me and had the audacity to think it was fucking funny.

I was mighty pissed off with him by now because he arbitrarily decided to go against what I wanted and had been very clear about in multiple ways. It was made worse because he had a tiny dick - maybe 3.5 inches at best. As he was leaving he said "I might come back later!" to which I said no thanks and shut the door behind him. He went right on my block list as soon as he was out of the door.

After that it was more time wasters - isn't it amazing how everyone is free tomorrow or yesterday or in three months' time? I used to have a trick to catch guys out with their lies. If I was in a hotel for more than one night, when they asked how long, I'd say "oh just tonight" and when they then went on to say "oh shame I am free tomorrow night" I'd suddenly have a change of plans from work and be there... they'd usually block me at that point because they'd been caught in their bullshit but I don't have the time, energy or even the patience for it anymore.

Anyway I got a message from my top guy that he was arriving and to get in the bath and wait for him, with my blindfold off.

He walked in and immediately doused me in pungent piss whilst calling me gorgeously degrading names then told me to shower it off ready for some Asian guy he'd found - the same one who broke my arse last time.

I did as I was told then, hood back on, he guided me back to the bed.

Over the  next few hours, I was choked hard (left a few bruises which is something I didn't really want due to the work I do), slapped, spanked, belted and had my pubes torn out (which I begged for...it's one of my own little kinks).

As I was choked, I had my nose held closed and I did feel close to blacking out a few times, but never did. I was face fucked brutally with cock held down my throat. I fucking loved it.

The Asian guy fucked me hard and deep. He has a lovely hard, big cock before he eventually spunked deep into me.

He hung around for a bit while my top kept using me, both trying to find others and both equally unsuccessful before he eventually got cleaned up and left.

To be fair, this was when my pubes came out and the belt was used. I fucking loved it every time the belt landed but especially when it hit my hole. 

Eventually I was able to tick another item off of my bucket list - I've always wanted a guy to shoot in my eye as I hold the lid open and my top guy indulged. In fact he came enough to get it in both eyes which was a huge turn on.

Seeing the world through a layer of spunk is a phenomenal experience.

After he left, I went back on the apps. An old guy (70's) with a big dick messaged asking if he could come over. 

He wanted it anonymous and bb which suited me so I explained the door was off the latch and after about 10 mins I heard him walk in (my hood was back on and I was in the position).

He mentioned it smelled of sweat and sex and he couldn't wait to "stir the pot" as I could hear him undressing.

No time was wasted. He didn't even put his cock in my mouth - I just heard him squirting a little lube onto it, before stepping up behind me and sliding right in.

He fucked me surprisingly hard and fast (I NEVER judge a fuck by the cover) and deep but after only a few moments he announced he was adding his spunk to the mix. I wish it was a "mix" mind you.

After some really hard, deep, thrusts, he came, stood up, got dressed and left.

No one else took the bait so I hit the shower then bed. Some stats there - on Grindr, over 150 guys viewed me. On Fabguys, it was closer to 120 (and I am sure there were some of the same guys) but even if you take an average across both platforms, that is 165 guys. And only 4 fucked me. It's crazy these days.

Anyway, I can't wait for next time.

Doncaster hotel being whored out

 A couple of weeks ago, I got chatting to a top guy on Grindr then moved over to Kik.

I'm not going to like... I was a bit sceptical because he came over as just too good to be true. He was very much into anonymous and wanted me in my blindfold hood.

He was also very much into the idea of whoring me out for the evening.

I got to the hotel for about 5ish and quickly got checked in a douched/showered/ready. It was a cheap motel style of place with the rooms in an annexe and each one having a door straight outside...which is handy as hell to sluts like me.

It was clean and warm and comfy, so job done in that regard.

Had a couple of cheeky vodka's while I was prepping as well and I laid out a nice selection of poppers and lube ready to hand.

He arrived bang on time and we had a bit of a moment when, despite my trying to tape the door off the latch, it didn't open for him.

So..quick dash to open it, and back to the bed pulling my hood back down.

I *love* this hood. It completely blinds me whilst having a nice hole for my mouth to be used.

He was everything he'd promised. He forced my throat down his full length, making me gag. He fucked me hard and deep then went back to my mouth.

He had a lovely thick, hard cock that went deep into me.

And all the while he was on his mobile phone keeping his promise to whore me out.

After about an hour/hour and half of using my holes, he left but was still arranging others.

While he was doing that, I found a guy myself on grindr, who came around. He apologised it was only going to be a quick pump and dump (I mean come on...I love that).

 When he told me he was parked, I adopted the position, with my hood on.

He came into the room and after letting me suck him hard, he moved to my arse. Long, hard and relatively thin cock (y'know...my absolute favourite type) he slid in and after a few gentles pushes to get his rhythm, he absolutely pounded the fuck out of me. Fast and hard and with one aim - to get off.

He was true to his word and after a few minutes, he grunted that he was coming. I begged for it deep and he obliged, shoving all the way in so I could feel his pubes pushed up against me.

He got up and left. In the meantime, another guy had messaged and was showing less than 1,000 feet away.

He arrived within a few minutes and didn't even bother with my mouth, just straight into my arse. He mad a comment about how slimy with spunk it felt and how that was a turn on. 

This time round, this guy was more measured. Slow, deep, meaningful thrusts. He fucked me for about 15/20 minutes calling me all sorts of nasty slut (huge turn on) before he started to increase his pace. 

He asked me if he could cum inside me! Not sure why he felt the need to ask but of course I pretty much responded by thrusting back onto his cock and begging him to.

He came for England. He pulled almost all the way out of my hole and I could feel every pump of his bell end. There must have been a dozen good pumps of cum into me and then he slowly slid into me saying he wanted to force his cum into my slut guts.

He slapped my arse and got dressed and left.

I checked my phone to a message from my top saying a Pakistani guy he new was arriving, so once again I adopted the position.

He came in and got undressed and then used my throat viciously. He forced my head down and wouldn't relent when I was choking. 

I don't mind a bit of this but when a guy taps, it's time to let them up. He wouldn't and it was annoying me a bit.

Then he went to my arse and slammed straight in.

And here's where the fun ended because all I got was a wall of pain.

I stopped him, and tried a different position but he'd clearly done some kind of damage so I stopped.

Here he got whiny about wanting to fuck me and come on it'll be over in a minute or two so just put up with it...

And this is one of the reasons I'm less attracted to any Asian me. They tend, in my experience, to be selfish but poor tops. Selfish good ones are hot. Poor ones are just a turn off and pressuring someone who's said stop you've caused problems is a massive turn off.

I let him wank off over my masked face and then he left.

And unfortunately, that was that for the night. Which was a massive shame because I had a message from another top guy on his way to the hotel and my top friend who had another lined up.

I'm fine, in case you're wondering. After a couple of days everything was back to normal and I'll be slutting again soon.

The top guy is my new best friend though and no, I won't share him. ;-)