Not sure what is happening lately but there seem to be more and more time wasters. I am usually quite good at spotting them - the chat goes from hello to filth almost instantly (usually a guy with his cock in his hand), or there's a reluctance to provide alternative contact details, or they've been on e.g. Fabguys for over a year with no verified meets.
Even my regular top guy became unreliable, which does happen but is frustrating. His was slightly different though - he simply stopped replying to messages on Grindr, responding with flames and thumbs up... I am not going to carry conversations or be the only one putting effort into arranging meets.
It was always me paying for a hotel room - he always wanted to go to e.g. London or Manchester but when it came to it, couldn't afford it (maybe we can share your room... actually no, before and after the fun, I like my own company and privacy). It was always me making the effort to travel.
If you can't even be bothered to chat/show up when that is literally all you have to do... oh well.
But anyway there seem to be more and more guys who *are* willing to move to e.g. WhatsApp but then just stop replying.
Ditto the apps. Sudden block when the time to actually show up arrives.
It's *always* happened but it seems to be getting much, much, worse.
Anyone else seeing the same problems?
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