A scam warning

 A little but of a different post - I thought I'd share a bit of information about scams that do the rounds and target us.

The first one is relatively uncommon but I've had someone try to pull it three times on me.

On the apps, like Grindr, someone messages you (or you them).

They are usually very responsive and give you the impression that they're well up for meeting. Often, they talk about how they host gangbangs and parties and how they're looking for another (bottom/vers/top) guy to join and how they like the look of you and your profile.

The chat will continue for a few days before they finally move to the scam. They will tell you something like they run their parties through a website and/or they use a website to confirm that you are over the age of 18 and/or who you say you are.

They ask you to sign up to said site then provide them your login details so they can "confirm" everything.

The first red flag: almost always they are professional-grade photos that they share.

Second: They often answer at odd times (3am in the morning, for example) despite their "location" being only a few miles away from you (of course, they aren't - they spoof it).

Third: Their English may be off. The better ones are not terrible but it's often noticeable.

Fourth (and this is the big one): Ask yourself why would anyone need to know your login to a site? Have you ever even heard of this site? How long has it been around? Chances are even if they don't ask for your login, it's just a site someone set up to harvest your credit card details in plain text.

Do NOT be fooled by it looking like a professionally designed website. These people are clever.

Another common one is to get an email saying that someone has recorded you wanking off to porn and if you don't send them some money (usually in cryptocurrency) they will send it on to your contacts.

What makes this one more believable is that they usually include a password. Here's the thing - they got your email and password from a data breach. They don't have ANY access. And it may not even be your email or computer password (hopefully, you use different passwords and it won't be, but...).

It's a psychological trick to try and make you panic because you think that they have your passwords and accesses.

And the final one today is one I am less aware of with gay men but not uncommon with straight/bisexuals.

You are contacted by a woman. Eventually she will ask you to video chat and that chat will become very sexual and you'll be asked to wank off for them.

You aren't actually talking to a human in the vast number of cases. It's a very cleverly timed, pre-recorded video stream with pauses in all the right places for you to respond and fill in the gaps. Honestly until you see it in action you wouldn't believe just how well timed this all is.

But it's another one that's easy to spot and subvert with a bit of thought. Just wait. Pause. Slow down responses or throw in something that isn't relevant to the conversation. A real human will react. A recording will move on to their next piece seamlessly...

Of course, that doesn't preclude it being a person who *is* a honeytrap but that costs money and time and they cannot target mutiple people simultaneously that way, so it's rare.

That's it for now. Stay safe online.

Back in Doncaster

Just a warning that this one contains a bit of kink including hitting, choking and watersports. If it's not your thing, move on. If it is, read on...

I'd been speaking with the top guy since the last meet talking about a repeat performance and discussing how much we'd both enjoyed it and how we wanted to do more in the next session, including going to both a sauna and a cruise.

 Now in a rare turn of events I have some time free next weekend but that didn't gel as he doesn't but we were both free this Wednesday just gone and so I booked a room at the hotel and we made the arrangement.

A few years ago, I would get inundated with messages on both the websites and apps but lately I get a lot of attention but not so many guys reaching out to make contact, or when they do there's a trend of not being available, or the worse ones - the ones on their way but then suddenly block you.

Three times I had that on Grindr and to this day I have no idea what they get from it - I don't do "cyber" so it's not like they get their rocks off. Hey ho, I digress.

I got to the hotel and got cleaned out. I had a "oh no" moment where the douche felt very painful and uncomfortable and raised the question of whether the night was over before it began, but I think I just angled the hose wrong. It was transient and didn't come back.

Anyway there was a slight adjustment to our plans as he had to work later than expected, so in true slag fashion, I trawled online and this is where the three said they were en-route then never showed and blocked.

Eventually a guy did show. I had been very clear about what the meets were - quick (not into all night sessions at the best of times), anonymous (I was in my blindfold hood), bareback and cum inside.

One of the first things he did was pull the hood off. He then bounced around like a fucking child on too much sugar, sliding into me, out of me, bending me round to kiss, licking my feet, pushing his cock into my mouth for a thrust or two and back again before (albeit after not too long) saying he was going to spray cum on me...on... "no, IN me..." nope. He refused and shot it over me and had the audacity to think it was fucking funny.

I was mighty pissed off with him by now because he arbitrarily decided to go against what I wanted and had been very clear about in multiple ways. It was made worse because he had a tiny dick - maybe 3.5 inches at best. As he was leaving he said "I might come back later!" to which I said no thanks and shut the door behind him. He went right on my block list as soon as he was out of the door.

After that it was more time wasters - isn't it amazing how everyone is free tomorrow or yesterday or in three months' time? I used to have a trick to catch guys out with their lies. If I was in a hotel for more than one night, when they asked how long, I'd say "oh just tonight" and when they then went on to say "oh shame I am free tomorrow night" I'd suddenly have a change of plans from work and be there... they'd usually block me at that point because they'd been caught in their bullshit but I don't have the time, energy or even the patience for it anymore.

Anyway I got a message from my top guy that he was arriving and to get in the bath and wait for him, with my blindfold off.

He walked in and immediately doused me in pungent piss whilst calling me gorgeously degrading names then told me to shower it off ready for some Asian guy he'd found - the same one who broke my arse last time.

I did as I was told then, hood back on, he guided me back to the bed.

Over the  next few hours, I was choked hard (left a few bruises which is something I didn't really want due to the work I do), slapped, spanked, belted and had my pubes torn out (which I begged for...it's one of my own little kinks).

As I was choked, I had my nose held closed and I did feel close to blacking out a few times, but never did. I was face fucked brutally with cock held down my throat. I fucking loved it.

The Asian guy fucked me hard and deep. He has a lovely hard, big cock before he eventually spunked deep into me.

He hung around for a bit while my top kept using me, both trying to find others and both equally unsuccessful before he eventually got cleaned up and left.

To be fair, this was when my pubes came out and the belt was used. I fucking loved it every time the belt landed but especially when it hit my hole. 

Eventually I was able to tick another item off of my bucket list - I've always wanted a guy to shoot in my eye as I hold the lid open and my top guy indulged. In fact he came enough to get it in both eyes which was a huge turn on.

Seeing the world through a layer of spunk is a phenomenal experience.

After he left, I went back on the apps. An old guy (70's) with a big dick messaged asking if he could come over. 

He wanted it anonymous and bb which suited me so I explained the door was off the latch and after about 10 mins I heard him walk in (my hood was back on and I was in the position).

He mentioned it smelled of sweat and sex and he couldn't wait to "stir the pot" as I could hear him undressing.

No time was wasted. He didn't even put his cock in my mouth - I just heard him squirting a little lube onto it, before stepping up behind me and sliding right in.

He fucked me surprisingly hard and fast (I NEVER judge a fuck by the cover) and deep but after only a few moments he announced he was adding his spunk to the mix. I wish it was a "mix" mind you.

After some really hard, deep, thrusts, he came, stood up, got dressed and left.

No one else took the bait so I hit the shower then bed. Some stats there - on Grindr, over 150 guys viewed me. On Fabguys, it was closer to 120 (and I am sure there were some of the same guys) but even if you take an average across both platforms, that is 165 guys. And only 4 fucked me. It's crazy these days.

Anyway, I can't wait for next time.

Doncaster hotel being whored out

 A couple of weeks ago, I got chatting to a top guy on Grindr then moved over to Kik.

I'm not going to like... I was a bit sceptical because he came over as just too good to be true. He was very much into anonymous and wanted me in my blindfold hood.

He was also very much into the idea of whoring me out for the evening.

I got to the hotel for about 5ish and quickly got checked in a douched/showered/ready. It was a cheap motel style of place with the rooms in an annexe and each one having a door straight outside...which is handy as hell to sluts like me.

It was clean and warm and comfy, so job done in that regard.

Had a couple of cheeky vodka's while I was prepping as well and I laid out a nice selection of poppers and lube ready to hand.

He arrived bang on time and we had a bit of a moment when, despite my trying to tape the door off the latch, it didn't open for him.

So..quick dash to open it, and back to the bed pulling my hood back down.

I *love* this hood. It completely blinds me whilst having a nice hole for my mouth to be used.

He was everything he'd promised. He forced my throat down his full length, making me gag. He fucked me hard and deep then went back to my mouth.

He had a lovely thick, hard cock that went deep into me.

And all the while he was on his mobile phone keeping his promise to whore me out.

After about an hour/hour and half of using my holes, he left but was still arranging others.

While he was doing that, I found a guy myself on grindr, who came around. He apologised it was only going to be a quick pump and dump (I mean come on...I love that).

 When he told me he was parked, I adopted the position, with my hood on.

He came into the room and after letting me suck him hard, he moved to my arse. Long, hard and relatively thin cock (y'know...my absolute favourite type) he slid in and after a few gentles pushes to get his rhythm, he absolutely pounded the fuck out of me. Fast and hard and with one aim - to get off.

He was true to his word and after a few minutes, he grunted that he was coming. I begged for it deep and he obliged, shoving all the way in so I could feel his pubes pushed up against me.

He got up and left. In the meantime, another guy had messaged and was showing less than 1,000 feet away.

He arrived within a few minutes and didn't even bother with my mouth, just straight into my arse. He mad a comment about how slimy with spunk it felt and how that was a turn on. 

This time round, this guy was more measured. Slow, deep, meaningful thrusts. He fucked me for about 15/20 minutes calling me all sorts of nasty slut (huge turn on) before he started to increase his pace. 

He asked me if he could cum inside me! Not sure why he felt the need to ask but of course I pretty much responded by thrusting back onto his cock and begging him to.

He came for England. He pulled almost all the way out of my hole and I could feel every pump of his bell end. There must have been a dozen good pumps of cum into me and then he slowly slid into me saying he wanted to force his cum into my slut guts.

He slapped my arse and got dressed and left.

I checked my phone to a message from my top saying a Pakistani guy he new was arriving, so once again I adopted the position.

He came in and got undressed and then used my throat viciously. He forced my head down and wouldn't relent when I was choking. 

I don't mind a bit of this but when a guy taps, it's time to let them up. He wouldn't and it was annoying me a bit.

Then he went to my arse and slammed straight in.

And here's where the fun ended because all I got was a wall of pain.

I stopped him, and tried a different position but he'd clearly done some kind of damage so I stopped.

Here he got whiny about wanting to fuck me and come on it'll be over in a minute or two so just put up with it...

And this is one of the reasons I'm less attracted to any Asian me. They tend, in my experience, to be selfish but poor tops. Selfish good ones are hot. Poor ones are just a turn off and pressuring someone who's said stop you've caused problems is a massive turn off.

I let him wank off over my masked face and then he left.

And unfortunately, that was that for the night. Which was a massive shame because I had a message from another top guy on his way to the hotel and my top friend who had another lined up.

I'm fine, in case you're wondering. After a couple of days everything was back to normal and I'll be slutting again soon.

The top guy is my new best friend though and no, I won't share him. ;-)

Some guys are just plain rude

 I went cruising again last night. I arrived just as it was starting to get dark. 

I prefer to get a bus to near the cruise then walk the rest of the way in. This particular place (the same as my last post) has two car parks you can walk between and plenty of wooded areas.

At the first location there were three cars parked up but no one getting out (I never get what that is all about but you see it all the time - drive to a car park and sit in the car - often with headlights on - then after a few minutes, drive to the other one and repeat over and over so I walked to the other one.

As I crossed the road near the car park I noticed another guy walking up the road and after wandering in the woods he bumped into me. He was clearly pissed out of his skull and could hardly stand upright.

He kept following me until I asked him not to.

Fast forwards a few minutes and I was gobbling a lovely cock when in the first guy storms, literally trying to drag the cock from my mouth, getting more desperate and aggressive each time.

I decided not to cause any scenes and walked away, letting him have the cock and went to another area.

After a few moments the other guy reappeared telling me he had vodka in his rucksack and did I want some?

No... go away.

I walked away and another guy followed. He was clearly a bit nervous, and kept looking around and jumping at shadows. He was just wanking himself hard when he suddenly pulled his pants up and walked away in a hurry.

Yep..idiot was stood a few feet away.

At this point I am fuming so I walked back to the first car park. Half way there though, I passed by a couple of cars parked in a laybye so walked between them into the woods. One of the guys followed me and whipped out a perfect cock. Already hard it was long and thin'ish. Hell yes.

I was slobbering on it while he stroked my arse. When he felt me lubed up, he positioned himself behind me and shoved his cock into me in one thrust. Heaven.

We'd just got into a good pace when..you guessed it. The moron came blundering down the path. The guy pulled out, pulled up his pants and left. Now this time I let rip - told the guy straight this is three fucking times you've wrecked my fun now fuck off away and leave me alone.

He made some comment about "it's you scaring them off" before he said "oh sorry mate it's you. sorry. what do you mean ruining your fun?" I was NOT in the mood for more bullshit and told him so.

After that he walked off but I could hear him shouting insults for a while!

Thankfully I didn't see him anymore after that but the night kind of fizzled.

On the plus side the guy who was balls deep came back and finished the job over the flatbed of his truck. He fucked me hard and fast and kept telling me my arse felt good and he couldn't wait to cum. When he did I begged for it as deep as possible and he obliged.

And that was it. By now it was close to midnight and I decided to head home.

I just don't get men like that. How can you be unaware of the problems you're causing? One day he'll get smacked and it'll be the other guys fault. Fucking idiot.

Bit of local cruising

I had a bit of free time one evening a couple of weeks ago so I decided I'd go back to the local cruising site.

I'd waited until it was just starting to get dark before I set off. It's a fairly convenient place for me as I can get a bus and walk half a mile to the cruise then after the same walk back, grab a taxi home. It means it's easier to blend in, as well as meaning I can have a couple of cheeky JD & Coke's without worrying about being over the limit.

It was surprisingly busy when I arrived but that frustrating part where people are just sat in their cars ignoring everyone. It's always confused me. You drive all the way to a woods to sit in your car avoiding contact.

At some point over the last few years, the forestry commission have hived off a big chunk of the car park and put gates up for a food van to park during the day but it does mean no cars there now. And also, to my horror they're blocked a good 50% of what remained with blocks and things as well (update - they've removed these and replaced with a restricted height gate) - and of course, that's the quiet bit guys tend to gravitate to to park up.

Anyway I walked past the cars and as I did I head two doors being closed behind me. A sneaky look back and I saw two guys had actually got out and were walking behind me.

I headed into the woods and slowed down. I stepped off the path and waited, huffing on my poppers as I did. 

The first guy walked right up in front of me and stood stroking his cock through his jeans.

I popped a bit of lube on my fingers and, as he stood watching, I added it to my hole.

That was his signal. He pulled his cock out as he stepped up, pushing my head down.

I assumed he wanted sucking but he turned me around and pulled my shorts down, presenting his cock to my hole. No questions, no talking. He paused as if waiting to see if I'd ask for a rubber or stop him. As if.

He pushed and slid into me. Thin and long just the way I love them. He started nice and slow and gentle.

By now the other guy had stopped and was wanking his cock. The guy inside me waved him over and he presented a very average length but massively thick cock to my mouth. I could literally only get the tip in.

The guy in my arse was encouraging him saying "feed him your cock." "Make him swallow your spunk" and "shoot it down his throat".

He was clearly getting off on his words as he thrust ever harder and faster. Still saying things like "make him swallow".

After a few minutes he grunted and said "I'm shooting in this slut!" and that was it. He thrust like crazy and grunted he was coming.

After he shot he told the other guy "You need a go on that. Top arse". He put his cock away and without another word walked off.

I was sucking the tip of the guy and he suddenly said "you want in your mouth or up your bum?

Of course I wanted it up me but his cock was too thick. I am talking girthier than a coke can! And I told him that to which he just said "yeah I get that a lot".

I kept doing my best to suck his big bell end. He produced a huge amount of lovely, salty precum.

I decided a while ago to swallow every time when guys shoot in my mouth but I wasn't prepared for the sheer volume of what this guy blew. He literally filled my mouth and more. I tried to catch the leakage but it kept coming. Three - I kid you not, three mouths full plus the leakage. And it was thick almost solid and I don't know how to describe it other than to say it was the spunkiest tasting spunk I've ever tasted. There was no sweetness or other tastes it was just like wallpaper paste thick, chewy spunk. 

The stuff I caught in my hands was almost dry lumps but I committed to myself so I ate it as well.

It sat quite heavily in my stomach but also I found it a turn on to have this thick spunk in my tummy where I could feel it. At that point I wished I'd at least got him to shoot it into my arse.

I commented how much there was and how thick it was and he just shrugged and said he hadn't cum in a week.

He wandered away and I hung around. I sat at a picnic table and watched as cars came and went but then suddenly it emptied.

I was just getting read to leave when a 4x4 pulled in and a guy got out smoking a cigarette. I walked past him into the other side of the woods and watched as he threw his cigarette down, stamped on it and followed me.

When he caught up we had a nod and I peeled my shorts down. He came over and played with my arse asking how many loads I'd got up there. "Just the one so far."

"Want mine?"

"Yes please."

Again no sucking. I bent over and he took his cock out, rubbing the tip around my hole. I had to bend quite low as he wasn't the tallest guy but he had a super hard, above average sized cock.

He rode really well. He pounded me hard then would slow down and then pound again.

He told me he can go for ages like that. I didn't mind as it wasn't exactly busy. 

After a few moments he asked to change position, asking if I'd lie down on my stomach for him. It was dry so why not.

Jesus he took the pounding to another level. I was in heaven. He didn't ask. Didn't slow down or change pace when he came he just announced he'd unloaded into me, got up, wiped his dick with some tissue, pulled up his pants and left.

I hung around a while but no one else turned up so I headed home.

When I got home though the thought, taste and feeling of that spunk was too much and I had a popper driven wank. I came twice. The firs time so hard, I hit my own face! Of course, I scooped it into my mouth and ate it.

Which turned me on again so I had another one.

It was a pleasant way to spend a few hours.

Oh and the last couple of weeks I've been chatting to a guy called Simon on Squirt. He's a regular reader of my blog apparently so shout out to you, Simon. I can't wait to the time we get an evening of my being your pure filthy bb slut.

First visit to cum coded

 I don't normally bother with the local sauna. The few times I've been it's turned out rather disappointing.

But they've been running an event for a while now called cum coded. The idea is simple - you sign in and choose two glow stick bands that signify position and safe sex preferences and wear them to signify to others what you're into.

So, pink for bottom and orange for bareback for me.

The evening itself opens at 6pm and runs to midnight. I got there around 7.45 as the site says lockers tend to fill up around 8.

It was busy but not packed when I arrived. I had my free shot, ordered a vodka and wandered.

To my dismay there seemed to be all green (safe) wristbands other than a couple of other bottoms.

After wandering and trying being bent over a in a couple of cubicles the action seemed to be almost non existent. "Here we go again!" I thought.

Eventually I made my way to the dark room and there were a few bodies around.

I bent over the central rotating column (not big enough to call a bed, though some of the more flexible guys can use it as such) and waited.

Within a few minutes a guy who'd been getting his cock sucked stood and came over. What surprised me here - he had a green band on but entered me raw.

He had a good sized cock to start. Big but not too big. He started off fairly slow and gently but before long her was pounding the living daylights out of me whilst I was huffing poppers and moaning encouragement.

Another guy fed his cock into my mouth and I was in spitroasted slut heaven.

Eventually the guy in my arse, ubelievably, started to pound even harder as he grunted his load into me.

He pulled out and the guy in my mouth walked around and took his place.

His cock felt about the same size and he went straight into deep hard thrusts and it wasn't long before he said he was cumming.

After he left, I stayed bent over and eventually I felt another cock entering me. Long and thin and very hard (the way I love them!). He took his time. Every thrust was slow but firm. I was huffing poppers in heaven.

He fucked me for around 15 minutes with the same pace, speeding up some towards the end and slamming home before he also said he was gonna cum. It felt like he was shooting inside me for ages (I'm sure he wasn't).

As he stepped away, another guy came up behind me and slid right on it. His cock was big and really stretched me but thankfully the others had opened me right up (I am really not sure I could have taken his first).

Unfortunately it wasn't a fast fuck and though he grunted he wanted to cum I am not sure if he actually did or not.

By this time there was a bit of safe group action going on next to me, and I was getting a bit pushed around so I wandered off to give them a bit of space.

As I went into one of the cubicles, a guy followed me so I did the right thing and bent over.

He was inside me in a flash. Average thickness cock but again quite long. 

The guy pushed me up onto the bed and climbed onto me while I laid facedown with my legs open. I do love that position as the top usually goes deeper and the load tends to get shot as far into me as possible.

I actually didn't think he was going to shoot - he rode me for a good 20/25 minutes but fuck it was good. Slow, deep to hard and fast so his balls were really slapping against me. When he announced he was about to cum he slowed right down and slid deep into me. I could feel his cock pulsing for once.

After he came he just laid there for a moment breathing heavily before standing up and leaving.

 I took another look around but it was getting a bit quieter and everyone I could see was bottom and/or safe so I got dressed, paid for my drinks and headed to a local cruise. Well when I slut, I like to slut.

I arrived and walked a few hundred yards to the cruise (a car park and picnic area). 

It immediately struck me as weird that there was only one car there at this time of night on a Friday but anyway as I walked past the car, a guy got out and followed me.

I leaned over one of the benches and he stroke my arse through my jeans whilst releasing his still semi soft cock.

I immediately bent down and sucked him hard, releasing my belt and buttons and letting my jeans fall to my knees.

He was fingering my hole which was dripping wet. He pushed me forwards and entered me easily. Again a nicely average cock.

After a few moments he asked me to bend lower on the seat of the bench rather than the table so I did. This gave him easier access.

It didn't take him long to blow what sounded like a fairly large load into me and we had a chat for a few moments.

He warned me not to expect too much as apparently human remains had been found about half a mile away and the other end of the access road to the way I'd walked in was closed and police were making occasional rounds. I checked the news later and he wasn't lying either.

After about 15 mins one other car pulled in but the driver never moved or gave any indication of his intent to do anything, so I headed home.

I got chatting to a guy on Fabguys but he was fucking weird and gave off all the wrong vibes so I turned him down.

After that, I just went to bed.

Fun night all in. My arse was well flooded with spunk and I felt amazing.

No emebellisments or bullshit

When I first decided to write about my sex life on here I promised myself that no matter what, I would never embellish things or bullshit just to get an audience.

After all, one of the reasons I write is so I can come back later and remember the sessions I've had over the years, not just to appeal to a wide audience. Don't get me wrong I LOVE the idea of other guys getting off on my adventures but it was never the primary reason to do this.

That's why I sometimes write about the disappointments or even go long periods where I don't blog - it's either simply because I've not had the opportunities to get cock (work can be a killer, plus I am an all but single parent from back when I was married - but that's a private story I won't be telling any time soon, sorry) or simply it was. say, a quickie of nothing notable worth writing about.

Anyway, I hope to keep writing here as and when so bear with me.

Thanks all x